Hello there. This is my digital garden, a web of notes on kink, sexuality, and power dynamics, written by an experienced kinkster who is still learning. Nothing here is finished. Every note says how developed it is and how I know what I claim.
This site is for adults only, and, while it will address explicit topics, it isn’t designed to be porn. The site is text only, aside from a few icons that I’m sure most people would struggle to find titilating. I’m just one Domme, and while I have years of experience, do not take me as an authority. Take what is useful and leave the rest.
Where to go
- About: Who I am and why I keep this garden.
- Now: What I am working on and thinking about at the moment.
- Contact: How to reach me.
- How This Garden Works: The stages, labels, and rules behind every note.
Reading the notes
Every note carries a few labels: how developed it is (Seed, Bud, Bloom or Perennial), how I know what it claims, and whether the topic is Thorny. How This Garden Works explains each one.
Further reading
Other people’s writing on what a digital garden is. These links leave this site.
- A Brief History & Ethos of the Digital Garden by Maggie Appleton: Traces where the idea came from and the principles behind it.
- The Garden and the Stream by Mike Caulfield: Explores why a web of linked notes differs from a feed.
- Evergreen notes by Andy Matuschak: Discusses how notes can keep growing and stay useful.